{"id":2352,"date":"2026-04-19T12:50:56","date_gmt":"2026-04-19T09:50:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/?p=2352"},"modified":"2026-04-19T12:50:56","modified_gmt":"2026-04-19T09:50:56","slug":"serif-akarcesme-baskasinin-kavaliyla-kaval-calmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/19\/serif-akarcesme-baskasinin-kavaliyla-kaval-calmak\/","title":{"rendered":"\u015eER\u0130F AKAR\u00c7E\u015eME: BA\u015eKASININ KAVALIYLA KAVAL \u00c7ALMAK"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Hayat bazen insana \u00f6yle dersler verir ki, ne kitaplarda yazar ne de bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 anlatabilir. O dersler ancak ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011frenilir. \u0130\u015fte o derslerden biri de \u015fu s\u00f6zde gizli: \u201cBa\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n kaval\u0131yla kaval \u00e7alarken, \u00e7ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n kaval elinden al\u0131n\u0131rsa havay\u0131 \u00fcflersin.\u201d<\/div>\n
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Bu s\u00f6z, asl\u0131nda ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n imk\u00e2nlar\u0131yla var olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n ac\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fini anlat\u0131r. Kendi eme\u011fiyle, kendi al\u0131n teriyle bir \u015fey ortaya koymak yerine; ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcne, makam\u0131na, imk\u00e2n\u0131na yaslanarak yol y\u00fcr\u00fcyenler\u2026 \u0130lk bak\u0131\u015fta g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrler. Ama o g\u00fc\u00e7, onlar\u0131n de\u011fildir.<\/div>\n
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Bir g\u00fcn o \u201ckanal\u201d kapan\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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\u0130\u015fte o g\u00fcn, elindeki kaval da gider.<\/div>\n
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Geride ne kal\u0131r? Ne ses, ne nefes\u2026 Sadece bo\u015fluk.<\/div>\n
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Bug\u00fcn etraf\u0131m\u0131za bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, bu durumu s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Birilerinin g\u00f6lgesinde b\u00fcy\u00fcyenler, o g\u00f6lge \u00e7ekildi\u011finde ortada kal\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendi ayaklar\u0131 \u00fczerinde durmay\u0131 hi\u00e7 \u00f6\u011frenmemi\u015fler. Hep birilerinin omzuna basarak y\u00fckselmi\u015fler ama o omuz \u00e7ekildi\u011finde yere \u00e7ak\u0131lacaklar\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7 hesap etmemi\u015fler.<\/div>\n
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Oysa ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7; ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n sundu\u011fu imkanlarda de\u011fil, insan\u0131n kendi eme\u011finde sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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Kendi kanal\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7amayan, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n kanal\u0131na mahk\u00fbm olur.<\/div>\n
Kendi kaval\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alamayan, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n sesine muhta\u00e7 kal\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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Ve unutulmamas\u0131 gereken en \u00f6nemli ger\u00e7ek \u015fudur:<\/div>\n
Emanet g\u00fc\u00e7, kal\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/div>\n
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Bug\u00fcn birilerinin deste\u011fiyle ayakta duranlar, yar\u0131n o destek \u00e7ekildi\u011finde ayakta kalabilecek mi? As\u0131l soru budur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat, kimsenin kimseye sonsuza kadar omuz verdi\u011fi bir yer de\u011fildir.<\/div>\n
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Herkes, bir g\u00fcn kendi nefesiyle \u00fcflemek zorundad\u0131r.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\u0130\u015fte o y\u00fczden; ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n kanal\u0131yla kaval \u00e7almak yerine, kendi yolunu a\u00e7mak gerekir. Belki zor olur, belki ge\u00e7 olur ama sa\u011flam olur. Kimsenin el uzatmas\u0131na ihtiya\u00e7 duymadan, dimdik ayakta durabilmek\u2026<\/div>\n
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As\u0131l ba\u015far\u0131 budur.<\/div>\n
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Aksi halde, bir g\u00fcn kaval gider\u2026<\/div>\n
Ve geriye sadece \u00fcflenecek bo\u015f bir hava kal\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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\u015eerif Akar\u00e7e\u015fme KU\u015eA HABER<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Ayd\u0131n ve Ku\u015fadas\u0131’ndan haberdar olmak i\u00e7in www.kusahaber.com<\/a><\/span> ve @kusa_haber takip edin.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Hayat bazen insana \u00f6yle dersler verir ki, ne kitaplarda yazar ne de bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 anlatabilir. O dersler ancak ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011frenilir. \u0130\u015fte o derslerden biri de \u015fu s\u00f6zde gizli: \u201cBa\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n kaval\u0131yla…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2353,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[1220],"class_list":["post-2352","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazarlar","tag-koseyazisi-serifakarcesme-gercekler-hayatdersi-kendiayaklarininuzerindedur"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2352","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2352"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2352\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2354,"href":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2352\/revisions\/2354"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2353"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2352"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2352"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2352"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}