{"id":3210,"date":"2026-10-24T23:05:41","date_gmt":"2026-10-24T20:05:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/?p=3210"},"modified":"2026-10-24T23:51:51","modified_gmt":"2026-10-24T20:51:51","slug":"her-parlayan-altin-her-gulen-yuz-dost-degildir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kusahaber.com\/index.php\/2026\/10\/24\/her-parlayan-altin-her-gulen-yuz-dost-degildir\/","title":{"rendered":"HER PARLAYAN ALTIN, HER G\u00dcLEN Y\u00dcZ DOST DE\u011e\u0130LD\u0130R!"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>HER PARLAYAN ALTIN, HER G\u00dcLEN Y\u00dcZ DOST DE\u011e\u0130LD\u0130R!<\/h1>\n<p><strong>\u015eER\u0130F AKAR\u00c7E\u015eME \u2013 K\u00d6\u015eE YAZISI<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hayat insana \u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011fretir. Ama en b\u00fcy\u00fck dersleri bazen kitaplardan de\u011fil, insanlardan al\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Kimi zaman bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeye inan\u0131r\u0131z, kimi zaman g\u00fczel bir s\u00f6ze kanar\u0131z. Dost bildiklerimize g\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc a\u00e7ar, s\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131r, en zor g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde yan\u0131m\u0131zda olacaklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>Ama zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e anlar\u0131z ki&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Her parlayan alt\u0131n de\u011fildir. Her g\u00fclen y\u00fcz samimi de\u011fildir. Her \u201cdostum\u201d diyen de ger\u00e7ek dost de\u011fildir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar vard\u0131r, y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcze g\u00fclerken arkan\u0131zdan konu\u015fur. Yan\u0131n\u0131zdayken sizi \u00f6ver, yoklu\u011funuzda sizi ele\u015ftirir. \u0130\u015fleri d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde kap\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7alar, sizin ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z oldu\u011funda ise ortadan kaybolur.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte hayat\u0131n en ac\u0131 ama en de\u011ferli derslerinden biri de budur: \u0130nsanlar\u0131 s\u00f6zleriyle de\u011fil, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla tan\u0131mak gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc dostluk, g\u00fczel g\u00fcnlerde ayn\u0131 masada oturmak de\u011fildir. Dostluk, zor g\u00fcnlerde de ayn\u0131 y\u00fcrekte yer bulabilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>Menfaatin bitti\u011fi yerde dostlu\u011fu da biten insanlardan uzak durmak gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Ne yaz\u0131k ki g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde insanlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman d\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fleriyle, makamlar\u0131yla, paralar\u0131yla ve \u00e7evreleriyle de\u011ferlendiriliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa insan\u0131 de\u011ferli k\u0131lan ne cebindeki para ne oturdu\u011fu koltuk ne de \u00e7evresindeki kalabal\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130nsan\u0131 insan yapan vicdan\u0131d\u0131r, merhametidir, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcr ve karakteridir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>G\u00fczel giyinmek kolayd\u0131r, g\u00fczel konu\u015fmak da&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ama g\u00fczel bir y\u00fcre\u011fe sahip olmak, verdi\u011fi s\u00f6z\u00fcn arkas\u0131nda durmak, kimse g\u00f6rmedi\u011finde bile do\u011fru olan\u0131 yapmak herkesin harc\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Unutmayal\u0131m ki makamlar ge\u00e7icidir, servetler t\u00fckenebilir, alk\u0131\u015flar susabilir. Bug\u00fcn etraf\u0131n\u0131zda olan kalabal\u0131klar yar\u0131n da\u011f\u0131labilir.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Geriye yaln\u0131zca insanlar\u0131n kalbinde b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z iz kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir insan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rmek istiyorsan\u0131z ona ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n oldu\u011fu g\u00fcne bak\u0131n. Sizinle bir \u00e7\u0131kar ili\u015fkisi kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek karakter, menfaatlerin sona erdi\u011fi yerde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n<p>Benim hayata bak\u0131\u015f\u0131mda \u00f6nemli olan, herkes taraf\u0131ndan sevilmek de\u011fil, do\u011fru bildi\u011fim yolda vicdan\u0131mla y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>Kimsenin hakk\u0131n\u0131 yemeden, kimsenin arkas\u0131ndan i\u015f \u00e7evirmeden, kimseye oldu\u011fundan farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeden ya\u015famak&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte as\u0131l zenginlik budur.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen d\u00fcr\u00fcst oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in kaybedersiniz. Bazen do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yledi\u011finiz i\u00e7in yaln\u0131z kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Bazen de iyilik yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z insanlardan k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>Ama sak\u0131n ola ki ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcnden kendi do\u011frular\u0131n\u0131zdan vazge\u00e7meyin.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sizin \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6nd\u00fcrmemeli.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat k\u0131sa&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>K\u0131rmaya, kand\u0131rmaya, iki y\u00fczl\u00fc davranmaya, \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcnl\u00fck d\u00fcnya i\u00e7in insanlar\u0131 birbirine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmeye de\u011fmez.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kalbiniz temiz, s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz do\u011fru, duru\u015funuz sa\u011flam olsun.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Herkese yaranmak zorunda de\u011filsiniz. Herkesin sizi sevmesi de gerekmiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Yeter ki aynaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz insandan utanmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Ve unutmay\u0131n&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Alt\u0131n\u0131n sahtesi olabilir, dostlu\u011fun sahtesi olabilir, g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015flerin sahtesi olabilir. Ama sa\u011flam bir karakterin sahtesi uzun s\u00fcre ayakta kalamaz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Zaman, kimin ger\u00e7ekten dost, kimin yaln\u0131zca yol arkada\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011funu mutlaka g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n<p>Gerisi mi?<\/p>\n<p>Gerisi zaten gelip ge\u00e7ici&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u015eerif AKAR\u00c7E\u015eME<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>KU\u015eA HABER \u2013 K\u00f6\u015fe Yaz\u0131s\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>www.kusahaber.com<br \/>\nFacebook: Ku\u015fa Haber<br \/>\nInstagram: @kusa_haber<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>HER PARLAYAN ALTIN, HER G\u00dcLEN Y\u00dcZ DOST DE\u011e\u0130LD\u0130R! \u015eER\u0130F AKAR\u00c7E\u015eME \u2013 K\u00d6\u015eE YAZISI Hayat insana \u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011fretir. Ama en b\u00fcy\u00fck dersleri bazen kitaplardan de\u011fil, insanlardan al\u0131r\u0131z. 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