\u015eER\u0130F AKAR\u00c7E\u015eME \u2013 KU\u015eA HABER
K\u00d6\u015eE YAZISI
Atalar\u0131m\u0131z ne g\u00fczel s\u00f6ylemi\u015f: \u201cK\u0131lavuzu karga olan\u0131n burnu boktan kurtulmaz!\u201d
Bu s\u00f6z \u00f6ylesine s\u00f6ylenmi\u015f bir s\u00f6z de\u011fildir. \u0130\u00e7inde y\u0131llar\u0131n tecr\u00fcbesi, hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7ekleri ve insan ili\u015fkilerinin ac\u0131 dersleri vard\u0131r.
\u00d6yle insanlar vard\u0131r ki kendi ak\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 kullanmak yerine ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n akl\u0131yla hareket ederler. Kimin ne s\u00f6yledi\u011fine, kimin ne f\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131\u011f\u0131na, kimin hangi hesab\u0131n pe\u015finde oldu\u011funa bakmadan kendilerine yol g\u00f6sterenlerin pe\u015finden giderler.
Sonra da d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fckleri durumdan \u015fik\u00e2yet ederler!
\u0130yi de karde\u015fim, sen k\u0131lavuzunu se\u00e7erken akl\u0131n neredeydi?
HER AKIL VEREN DOST DE\u011e\u0130LD\u0130R!
Hayatta en tehlikeli insanlardan biri, dost g\u00f6r\u00fcnerek yanl\u0131\u015f y\u00f6nlendiren insand\u0131r.
Y\u00fcz\u00fcne g\u00fcler, arkandan hesap yapar. Sana ak\u0131l verir ama verdi\u011fi akl\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131na kendisi katlanmaz.
Seni birileriyle kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya getirir, kendisi kenara \u00e7ekilip seyreder.
Sana kavga ettirir, kendisi bar\u0131\u015f\u0131r.
Sana d\u00fc\u015fman kazand\u0131r\u0131r, kendisi dostluklar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcr.
Sen itibar kaybedersin, o kazan\u00e7l\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar.
Sen toplum i\u00e7inde mahcup olursun, o hi\u00e7bir \u015fey olmam\u0131\u015f gibi hayat\u0131na devam eder.
\u0130\u015fte karga k\u0131lavuzlu\u011fu tam da budur!
MENFAAT B\u0130T\u0130NCE AKIL VERENLER DE KAYBOLUR!
Bug\u00fcn \u00e7evremize bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda bunun say\u0131s\u0131z \u00f6rne\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.
D\u00fcne kadar birbirlerine \u00f6vg\u00fcler ya\u011fd\u0131ranlar, ayn\u0131 sofrada oturanlar, birlikte yol y\u00fcr\u00fcyenler, menfaatleri sona erdi\u011finde birbirlerinin en b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 oluveriyor.
D\u00fcn iyi dediklerine bug\u00fcn k\u00f6t\u00fc diyorlar.
D\u00fcn alk\u0131\u015flad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 bug\u00fcn karal\u0131yorlar.
D\u00fcn arkas\u0131ndan gittikleri insanlara bug\u00fcn olmad\u0131k su\u00e7lamalar y\u00f6neltiyorlar.
Peki ne de\u011fi\u015fti?
\u0130nsanlar m\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fti, yoksa menfaat hesaplar\u0131 m\u0131 bozuldu?
Asl\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fen \u00e7o\u011fu zaman insan de\u011fil, \u00e7\u0131kar ili\u015fkisidir.
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n dostlu\u011fu da d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da menfaatleri kadard\u0131r.
BA\u015eKASININ AKLIYLA HAREKET EDEN, KEND\u0130 \u0130T\u0130BARINI KAYBEDER!
\u00d6zellikle siyaset, ticaret, esnaf camias\u0131 ve sosyal hayat i\u00e7erisinde bu t\u00fcr ili\u015fkilerle s\u0131k s\u0131k kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131yoruz.
Birileri perde arkas\u0131ndan ak\u0131l verir.
Birileri dedikodu \u00fcretir.
Birileri insanlar\u0131 birbirine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr.
Birileri de kendisini ak\u0131ll\u0131 zannederek b\u00fct\u00fcn bu oyunlar\u0131n fig\u00fcran\u0131 olur.
Oysa insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck sermayesi ne makam\u0131d\u0131r ne paras\u0131d\u0131r ne de \u00e7evresindeki kalabal\u0131kt\u0131r.
\u0130nsan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck sermayesi itibar\u0131d\u0131r!
Kaybedilen para yeniden kazan\u0131l\u0131r.
Kaybedilen makam belki yeniden elde edilir.
Ama kaybedilen g\u00fcveni ve itibar\u0131 geri kazanmak hi\u00e7 de kolay de\u011fildir.
Bug\u00fcn birilerinin dolduru\u015funa gelerek hareket edenler, yar\u0131n d\u00f6n\u00fcp arkalar\u0131na bakt\u0131klar\u0131nda kendilerini yaln\u0131z bulabilirler.
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yanl\u0131\u015f yola sokanlar, yolun sonunda sizinle birlikte y\u00fcr\u00fcmek zorunda de\u011fildir.
KARGAYA KIZMADAN \u00d6NCE KEND\u0130NE BAK!
Bir insan\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f y\u00f6nlendirilmesi elbette m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Ancak her yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n sorumlulu\u011funu ba\u015fkalar\u0131na y\u00fcklemek de do\u011fru de\u011fildir.
Ak\u0131l insana bo\u015funa verilmemi\u015ftir.
Duydu\u011fun her s\u00f6ze inanmayacaks\u0131n.
Sana anlat\u0131lan her hik\u00e2yeyi ger\u00e7ek kabul etmeyeceksin.
Bir insan\u0131 karalamadan \u00f6nce ara\u015ft\u0131racaks\u0131n.
Bir dostlu\u011fu bitirmeden \u00f6nce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcneceksin.
Birinin arkas\u0131ndan konu\u015fmadan \u00f6nce vicdan\u0131na dan\u0131\u015facaks\u0131n.
Hele hele kendi \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131 i\u00e7in ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 kullanan insanlar\u0131n pe\u015finden hi\u00e7 gitmeyeceksin!
Unutmay\u0131n, yanl\u0131\u015f insanlarla y\u00fcr\u00fcyenler yaln\u0131zca yollar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, bazen karakterlerini de kaybederler.
SON S\u00d6Z\u00dcM \u015eUDUR!
Hayatta herkesin \u00e7evresinde ak\u0131l veren insanlar bulunur. \u00d6nemli olan \u00e7ok ak\u0131l dinlemek de\u011fil, do\u011fru insan\u0131 dinlemektir.
D\u00fcr\u00fcst insan sizi yanl\u0131\u015f yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda uyar\u0131r.
Ger\u00e7ek dost sizi u\u00e7uruma s\u00fcr\u00fcklemez, u\u00e7urumun kenar\u0131ndan geri \u00e7eker.
Menfaat\u00e7i insan ise sizi u\u00e7uruma kadar g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr, sonra da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc seyreder.
Bu y\u00fczden kiminle yol y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcze, kimin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc dinledi\u011finize ve kime g\u00fcvendi\u011finize dikkat edin.
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yanl\u0131\u015f k\u0131lavuzun pe\u015finden gidenlerin sonunda s\u00f6yleyecekleri tek s\u00f6z kal\u0131r:
\u201cBen nerede hata yapt\u0131m?\u201d
Cevab\u0131 \u00e7ok basit!
Hata, yolun sonunda de\u011fil, k\u0131lavuzu se\u00e7ti\u011fin g\u00fcn ba\u015flad\u0131!
Ve unutmay\u0131n…
KILAVUZU KARGA OLANIN BURNU BOKTAN KURTULMAZ!
\u015eER\u0130F AKAR\u00c7E\u015eME
KU\u015eA HABER
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